In this era we all are so frustrated in our life, we all want love and care for the survival. When we are in a relationship then we want our partner to give love and care we deserve, some times we get it and sometimes we don’t. Everything is fine when we get it but if we don’t get it than the problem arises. So how we are gonna get the love and care we deserve?
Ask for it
We all are learning about relationship from television and movies. In movie they show that their partner always know when they want care and gives them. But in real life this thing not happened every time. Yes i am gonna agree sometimes it happens and if our partner care for us when we needed it then we filled with happiness which is gonna boost a lot of respect for them, because you get a feeling that they are here for you when you need them.
But many times when they also facing some problems and they are tired and they also want relief then they are not gonna see your current mind condition, Because they are also not at ease for that moment. Then you must have to ask them for it and then tell them you need their care at this moment and if they loves you then they are gonna be there for you and it is also gonna help their state of mind, because help you is also gonna clear their mind also and both of you is gonna be happy. And most important your relationship bond is gonna be more strong, i am gonna explain this soon.
Now a question arises that we don’t want to ask for it, we are not weak that we alone can’t pass this state of mind, if our partner want to help then do without our asking. Is he or she don’t love me enough to do it. We clearly show him that i am pissed but he is not getting any sign. These type of question is gonna pop up in your mind right ? Tell me one thing you love your partner, you complete each other right, then why you are thinking these type of things that i don’t want to ask. Your partner is not your average friend or any relative where you have to think about that. Are you not close enough with them that you can ask for help.
How to strong your relationship by asking for care
So now i am gonna tell you how the asking for help from partner is gonna help you strong your relationship. If one time you ask your partner then in future if they are in problem they are also gonna ask you for your help. You want to help your partner right so by asking them you are gonna open a gate for them. So now by this both of you have a habit of asking your partner directly for their help. when you are gonna be in a difficulty then you only gonna remember your partner, This is gonna make your relationship stronger.
So at last If you don’t get my ask me for care and love point then i am gonna tell you a excellent point which you all are gonna agree. Your partner is like your baby. If your baby don’t know anything or makes a mistake you teach them the right method and right thing to do, you are not gonna fight with them because they are your baby so do this with your partner also. Ignore their mistake that they didn’t see you in your bad phase and teach them what they should do.
Here i am only telling you one point go in future i am gonna elaborate more points to it, if you want to add anything to the topic then hit me up on the comments and also tell me your view on this do you agree or disagree and disagree then why. Also if you want post on any new topic also tell me. Have a good life and healthy relationship.