Everyone has an awesome side hidden away somewhere. They just need help in getting it out. But it’s a skill Everyone needs to master. There are various ways in which you can bring out the best version of yourself.
Dwelling on the past is not going to change anything. It’s true that the decisions you made then were major determinants in shaping what you are today, but what is the point of crushing situations that you can’t change? If you are embarrassed humiliated by what you have done in past then why not make a conscious effort to change the future? It is never too late to start doing the right thing in right manner , although it’s not easy switching off the world and swimming against the flow.
Use positive language and take strong ,positive steps toward your goals , for extracting the best in you.
- 1. WHAT YOU DO TODAY WILL PUT YOU IN SITUATION THAT IS BEST FOR YOURSELF TOMORROW
- 2. JUST BE YOURSELF:
- 3. FAILURE IS ONLY THE OPPORTUNITY TO BEGIN AGAIN:
- 4. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF:
- 5. REMEMBER THE 4 Cs– CLARITY, CONFIDENCE, COMMITMENT AND COMPETENCE…UPGRADE YOURSELF:
- 6. STOP SAYING “I WISH” AND START SAYING “I WILL”
1. WHAT YOU DO TODAY WILL PUT YOU IN SITUATION THAT IS BEST FOR YOURSELF TOMORROW
Do your best today to ensure that your future is sheltered or rightly assured. Improve your future by working on it today.
2. JUST BE YOURSELF:
Let people see the real ,imperfect, flawed,weird, beautiful and magically determined person you are. Accept who you are and be yourself. Don’t be afraid of being different from others. You can only shine when you are happy with yourself.
3. FAILURE IS ONLY THE OPPORTUNITY TO BEGIN AGAIN:
Failure allows you to eliminate the numerous ways not to do something, thus bringing you closer to the right way. Inventor Thomas Alva Edison after several unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb, said ” i haven’t failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Think of all rewards that will come to you when you eventually succeed.
4. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF:
If you can’t be honest with yourself, then whom you can be honest with? We can fool others ,but not fool ourselves. Be honest with yourself brings freedom . Work towards self-acceptance.
5. REMEMBER THE 4 Cs– CLARITY, CONFIDENCE, COMMITMENT AND COMPETENCE…UPGRADE YOURSELF:
To increase your value think yourself as a ‘product ‘and ‘upgrade ‘yourself. View yourself as a competitive product with features, benefits, assets and liabilities. Learning shouldn’t stop, continuously seeking knowledge should be lifelong pursuit. Jim Rohn once said “never wish life were easier , wish that you were better.”
6. STOP SAYING “I WISH” AND START SAYING “I WILL”
Life is wonderful gift to be treasured even if you fail . Never give up on yourself, strive to be kind-hearted soul and you will find that bringing out the best in you will be the simplest thing in the world