Have you ever made tremor statements? For instance, saying something like “you are the last person i can count on” is intended to be a bomb and not a general remark to a friend. People make mistakes, people might be late, and people might let you down , but people are still sensitive and they may not have intended to hurt you. It’s very likely that when you’re angry you are going to say things , speak louder and faster ,and in sharper pitch and tone. It may even look like you’re yelling when you’re not. So unless you feel calm don’t speak.
We’ve heard that lightning others candle enhances our own light. Well,on the same note, spreading negative thoughts about others brings us in negative spotlight. It’s possibly bad enough if we are negative people, but spreading negativity about others is not helpful. We think we are protecting our loved ones from mean people. But then, are we being sensitive enough to the ones we are gossipping about? If people want your opinion they will ask for it. Speak only when asked, and when you are 100 Percent certain.
When you say something mean about someone, it actually speaks a lot more about you