In every relationship there is a time when this question arises in your mind that should you have to change for your partner. When we are in a relationship like husband or wife, mother or father, brother or sister or friend, we have so much expectations. We always want them to change for our self. But as we all know it is next to impossible to fulfill the expectations of 1 person in this world. So on this way we ended up fighting with them and sometimes it can cost you your precious relationship. So what should we do.
We must have to understand this thing that what our partner wants is a need or just a wish.
One of my friend tell me that his partner is so demanding and always ask me to do things which i don’t want. So i ask him what your partner wants, then he tell me she wants loyalty. You see this is the mindset of the people. The problem is with them and they are blaming their partner for it. Loyalty is a need not just a wish. It is the foundation of the relationship. This is just an example there are many things where we are wrong and we are blaming our partner for it.
So back to the question should we change for our partner, This is totally depends on you that how much you loves your partner. If they want something for you and you knows it is also have it’s own benefits, then you must have to go for it. And if you thing it is just their wish and is not good for you then you must have to properly communicate and tell then your perspective on this. Trust we if you tell them the truth they are gonna understand your point.
If you have some other opinion or agrees with me then hit me up on the comments.