At the current time we always hear in a relationship that i am possessive for my partner, is this part of our love or is it a thing which results conflict?
I am not gonna tell you all possession is bad, If you don’t want your partner to be with someone let them know. But when it comes to family you have to be soft hearten.
For example your partner is having fun with family, and is happy then you don’t have to be possessive at all. Let them be happy they are gonna be with you after their family time. Missing them is different thing and stop them to having fun is different.
If you really love them then you are gonna give them their time for at least family. When you really love someone you just want to see them happy, Regardless of the way. So giving them their time and happiness is a act of love to do. But with one condition it must be no harmful to them.
Sometimes their happiness is in bad things them you have to stop them, if they like it or not. In this case stooping them searching for happiness in pleasures are act of love, they might feel bad for sometime but it is good for them and your relationship. That’s why i am saying about family and all safe things where you can ensure there fun is harmless.